Now that you’ve dabbled in your family history—at least
enough to see where the trail meanders, back through time—have you stumbled upon
any unexpected realizations? Have you been surprised to find you are related to
anyone famous? Discovered any celebrities? Or, at least, nefarious characters?
Since we are wrapping up the official Presidents Day
weekend, who has any presidential relatives to share?
If you don’t have any fascinating genealogical connections,
don’t despair. Neither do I. Although I’ve come close. Remember my first
husband, that tall guy with Marfan Syndrome? He used to joke about how his
maternal grandmother later married a man named Lincoln—and
about how likely it was that he was related to the Lincoln
family.
It didn’t take me long to fire back, “Yeah, and I’m related
to the Booth family!”
And I may well be, though I haven’t found the smoking gun. Yet.
While working on my maternal McClellan line, many years ago,
I connected with a distant cousin’s in-law who claimed relation to President
Ulysses S. Grant. I thought it ironic that his connection was through one of my
southern lines. Oh, how I wanted to
retort, “And I’m related to Lee.”
About the closest I can come to a famous connection has been
through my mother-in-law’s line. Someone way up-line had married into a family
which then had a relationship that connected, eventually, with astronaut—and
later, senator—John Glenn. If that circuitous genealogical route makes you
dizzy, don’t be surprised. Sometimes when that genealogical “what if” game gets
played, someone will always want to shoot for the moon. That’s when we need to
come back down to earth with a serious look at the paper trail.
Now that I’ve been exploring another line in my mother’s
heritage, I recently discovered that an in-law (several generations back, of
course) was the daughter of an almost-President.
Politics being politics, then-Vice President John C. Calhoun found himself on
the losing side of some debates which cinched his political fate.
So, I guess I can’t really claim any brush with fame or
fortune. But that’s okay. I constantly find it helpful to remind myself that I’m
tasked with being a biographer of insignificant lives. And look how
many stories there have been to find. With anonymity like that, who else would
have been there to tell their stories?
If you are like me—no famous relatives or even rich uncles
to brag about—then take heart that with each genealogical discovery you make and tell, you are passing along a story
that is worth sharing. Though the names of your ancestors may not be up in
lights on the theater marquee, nor the tale included in The New York Times bestseller list, someone from your line of
descendants will one day be glad you took the time to tell the story.
Above: Photograph of United States President Abraham Lincoln and his son Tad, taken in 1864 by American photographer Anthony Berger; courtesy United States Library of Congress Prints and Photographs division via Wikipedia; in the public domain.
Above: Photograph of United States President Abraham Lincoln and his son Tad, taken in 1864 by American photographer Anthony Berger; courtesy United States Library of Congress Prints and Photographs division via Wikipedia; in the public domain.
No celebrities in my line. However, with my family having roots in Orange County, Virginia, I guess I can claim they were neighbors of James Madison and Zachary Taylor. And then there's my patriot ancestor who marched across the state to join up with Lafayette. Do you suppose they swapped jokes around the ol' campfire? Exchanged email?
ReplyDeleteNeighbors might count for something. I wouldn't doubt they crossed paths in town from time to time.
DeleteThough your patriot ancestor's determination to serve is impressive, Wendy, I tend to doubt that fireside chat scenario. But does it really matter? It's your own ancestors' stories that are famous in your eyes--as it should be.
No presidents in my family trees. We have plenty of pioneers who helped to build our country but no names that are famous outside our family.
ReplyDeleteI like how a neighboring county's genealogical society termed their "builders" segment of their First Families program: the people who built the community do count for something! What your pioneer ancestors did matters, Colleen. I'm glad to see they are famous in your family!
DeleteHa my relatives are all famous in their own minds! Nope no one famous in my roots...my Grandfather supplied the mob in Chicago with moonshine during prohibition. :)
ReplyDeleteNow, there's a story that must get re-told on a regular basis ;)
DeleteAbe Lincoln's step mother is a cousin of mine. So close but no cigar.
ReplyDeleteInteresting the connections that get remembered in a family's lore. I can see why that story would be remembered in your family, Iggy.
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