While you may be busy today, occupying yourself with picnics
in the park—or barbecues in the backyard—I am fervently hoping to add one
unusual item to my holiday to-do list: visit an antique shop.
Yes, I know there are traditions more American than that, made
to fill up this national day of celebration. Come to think of it, unlike some
people I know, I find antiquing is not even my cup of tea. Or, ahem, grande
caramel frappucino. But for this holiday weekend, I am going to add that one
item to the list.
I have a specific reason for this task: I’m hoping, in some
small way, to commemorate an ancestor I’ve never met, personally, whose life has
lived on in the childhood stories I remember from my mother: my grand aunt,
Chevis Davis Chitwood Kyte.
My daughter has long been trying to talk me into driving to
a town to the north of us, to browse through the antique stores downtown. It
was just the other day that I finally agreed to join her. I had something
specific I needed to find. We were on a mission, and she knew just the place to
accommodate my hope to quickly accomplish that goal.
But you can’t just rush
into an antique shop, grab your selected item, slap some money on the counter
and run out the door. There is an ambience to the place that must be respected,
a protocol to heed. Life inside the doors of an antique shop must move at the
proper pace.
While I was following my daughter—the one more experienced
in such antique-shop decorum—I tried to feign interest in the, well, junk (don’t
kill me yet—I promise this will be a worthwhile divertissement) cluttering the
aisles and closing in on me from the walls. I couldn’t help but notice two
out-of-place pieces of pottery on a humble wooden stand.
I picked one up to have a closer look.
And then, turned it over, just in case.
If you have been journeying with me through the research on
my family tree that I have been journaling all along here, perhaps you recall
the story of my grand aunt Chevis. It was she whose rather painful life
experiences ended in
an early death from cancer. These life experiences, I’m
hoping, were somehow assuaged by the beauty Chevis created at her job at the
pottery company in her hometown Erwin,
Tennessee. You may recall
the post I wrote about that same Southern Potteries company.
I never had inherited any pottery from that cheerful
collection of now-renowned folksy artwork—believe me, after my own aunt passed
away last November, I looked carefully through all her collectibles, hoping
there was a piece to commemorate our common relative. The style of the artwork,
however, was imprinted in my mind’s eye. One never knows, ya know?
Fast forward to that moment when I—stranger in an antique
shop, trying not to look to my left or my right, fixed solely on the task I had
come to accomplish, spending not one penny more—walked past those two items.
They were marked with the right name, but something was wrong. There was a
smear on the wording. The familiar logo wasn’t included. But the style…the
style seemed right.
I can be a tightwad when it comes to spending money
unintentionally. Besides, I’m a researcher. So, what did I do? Resist the urge
to buy—and promise myself I’d research the identifying stamp further when I got
home.
Last night, it just so happened that we were joining friends
for an early Fourth of July concert in the park in that very same town to the
north. Afterwards, we planned to wander the downtown area, which on Thursday
evenings is converted to a farmer’s market and street faire. I promised myself
I’d take a detour into that antique shop, in the hopes that those two Southern Potteries pieces were still there. After all,
these two are my piece of America. My
roots are intertwined in the history of that company.
Of course, I got caught up in the moment, and forgot my
mission for the evening. But I’m already determined to make another trip. Part
of me is hoping the two items are still there, and that I can still buy them at
the reasonable asking price. The other part of me is nagging, “But why are they
so cheap?”
That’s the part of me that I will be telling, “Shut up.”