At first, it was one—yet a task seemingly as epic as that
one revolution racing through the bleak emptiness of space to encircle the sun. Day by
day, stretching to reach that goal. One day: one post.
Simple. Three hundred sixty five times simple.
It started in May. The month for remembering mothers. I
started out with those good intentions. I wanted to remember my mother, growing
up in a family moving from city to city seeking employment wherever, whenever,
just so the kids could be fed—but not in
a soup line!—during those destitute years of the Great Depression. Coming
of age in an amalgamation of the sounds of the Big Band era and the sights of
pre-World War II tensions. A woman who followed her dream and left her Midwest hometown
for an acting career before those bright lights of New York City.
I wanted, too, to remember my maternal grandmother—she of
the old southern heritage, who could tell of roots reaching beyond the advent
of statehood in Florida, before the genesis of
nationhood in the Carolinas and even Virginia.
I knew compiling documentation of her family’s history would yield me entrance
into the historic company of lineage societies, but I wanted to take this
journey to provide documentation for my own edification, also.
Then, too, there were the mothers whose stories lacked
verification—some shrouded in outright mystery. I wanted to pursue my paternal grandmother’s stories—where she came from and who she left behind. Her heritage—as
far as I know to this point—is a short trail from the mid 1950s back to a brick
wall standing stubbornly immovable only sixty, maybe seventy, years prior.
From there, the trail led—seemingly—everywhere. There were
the stories of my husband’s indomitable grandmother—granddaughter, herself, of
an Irish immigrant grandmother with a mystery of her own to pursue. From mother
to daughter to sons, their wives, their cousins, their distant kin—one story at
a time, the strands of family wove themselves together. Stretching the
connection at times, and at other times, nearly disappearing into the warp and
woof of their surroundings, the stories kept coming, day after day.
And then, as incredible as it might have seemed at the
beginning, it wasn’t one anymore.
Now—today—it is two.