It was slightly unsettling, spending a day perusing the thousands of entries placed in the “Information Wanted” classified section of
the Boston Pilot. While the anchor of each brief
plea was the parish and county from which each missing person originated in Ireland, the
remainder of the text demonstrated the complete loss of that sense of home. The
missing persons were often characterized by the itinerary of towns from which
they were last known to have been. The Irish were seen in steamers from Nova Scotia to New Orleans,
on their way across the continent to California
or the northwest, and at every point in between. They rarely seemed to stay in one
place long enough for desperate relatives’ letters to catch up with them.
Perhaps the experience, for me, was unsettling precisely
because I need a sense of Place—a connection to my surroundings, an affinity
with the details of those surroundings. In a way, the place where I stay, in
part, makes the person I am. I am not
just linked to that place, I am also created and shaped by that place.
Place is an entity that not only shapes me, but connects me
to the others who are likewise being shaped by their place. We gain something in
common by sharing that same Place.
When I think of Place and its role in shaping the many
ancestors whose contributions to my family also, in part, make me who I am, I
realize what a special role Place plays in genealogical studies.
I think of the abiding presence of a place like Perry
County, Ohio, to my mother-in-law’s forebears—Catholic Alsatian refugees
eventually finding their way to the interior of what was then a newly-formed
state, recently converted from its designation as Northwest Territory. The many branches of her family stayed in that same
county for nearly one hundred fifty years.
I think of the molding influence of a place like Prussia—that
monolithic governmental machine from which my father’s grandparents and mother
escaped, a place so rigid and forbidding, its refugees still clung to the fear
it engendered for two full generations after being freed from its clutches. The
silence that Place instilled in those it birthed was invincible—I still
struggle to unlock that family’s secrets.
I think of the strong sense of family—through “no matter what”—fostered by the essence of Place
in the Irish-American south side of nineteenth century Chicago, as so clearly
modeled in the supportive role played by the Tully and Stevens families there.
The community values, anchored by the Church, became the umbrella sheltering
those transplanted families from urban forces which elsewhere seemed to tear
families apart. What was there about the Place of Chicago that enabled these
Irish to thrive, when the rest of the diaspora—at least as portrayed in The Search for Missing Friends—seemed to disintegrate
and disappear?
Perhaps the one danger the Irish faced in leaving their
homeland was that very loss of home—of Place. Whatever essence they left behind
in their forced march away, it could only be retrieved when in the collective,
the refugees from that homeland reassembled to recreate their sense of Place
within the borders of a new land.
That is not an experience exclusive to the immigrant Irish,
of course—the many Chinatowns, Little Italys,
and even Little Saigons are testament to that. But for those descendants of the
wandering Irish, it is quite possible those dynamics will also work in reverse:
because of the lasting bond forged by a sense of Place, a trip to Ireland may
indeed seem to be a journey in which we are returning home.
It is sad in a way that there are no more real "unexplored" new places in this world - I think I would ponder "pulling up stakes" and moving somewhere else that held the promise of a "better place to be" - I just don't think there are any (anymore).
ReplyDeleteI tend to agree with you, Iggy. As far as finding a "better place to be," sometimes it just comes down to "bloom where you're planted"--make the best of what you have, where you have it.
DeleteOf course, that doesn't mean you couldn't find lots of places that are new to you. That is the beginning of the adventure...