Not only did the unfolding of John Brown’s drama provide us
with clues about his personal history, but the saga divulged some information
about his own family. As the newspapers put it—or, more specifically, the one
newspaper which took the greatest editorial liberties of the four published in
Logansport, Indiana—John Brown’s brothers seemed not to care very much for his
dilemma. It seemed as if the Logansport Times saw his brothers as outright
cold—nearly inhuman in their lack of care.
While that may seem surprising, I can vouch for such a
response. In working in the mental health field for years, especially with
parents of grown children with mental health challenges, I’ve come to recognize
that resignation that to the uninitiated eye comes across as an uncaring
attitude. These were the family members who had tried everything—and, despite
pouring their every effort over a lifetime into that one troubled child, have
only desperation and exhaustion to show for it all.
From the newspaper reports, we can glean that John Brown had
at least two brothers—and that neither seemed particularly warm in the concern
they exhibited toward their brother in his current plight. Speaking of John, the
Times reported on July 23, 1897,
While lying on the tobacco boxes in the cigar shop he was surrounded by curious spectators. Two brothers were also there, and there was about as much feeling exhibited as if he had been a hog. One brother, who is deaf and dumb, was there soon after it was known that John had taken poison. After a while he sent for the other brother, who was fishing in Eel river.
The Logansport Journal
had reported that, in the process of trying to save John’s life that day, as
John fought off all attempts to save him, he “almost bit the finger of his
brother off when he tried to pry his mouth open.”
The Times
described the struggle in which one of the brothers, upon arriving at the
scene, went immediately to work pouring an antidote down John’s mouth. After
John continually rebuffed his brother’s efforts, the man cursed him and said, “Well,
if you won’t take it, then…die.”
Off the one brother went, with the other calling after him,
asking where he was going. To the amazement of all, he replied, “Goin’ fishin’.”
I can only imagine how heartless this must have sounded to
onlookers at such a desperate scene. On the other hand, the scenario brings to
mind the possibility that this might have been a re-run of countless such
unfolding dramas over the life of these three men.
Along with this vignette provided in the Times, the report also provided another
family clue: one of the brothers was listed as “deaf and dumb.” Having been
reported to have carried on a conversation with his brother, the man obviously
was not totally unable to hear, nor was he “dumb” (as the vernacular of the day
put it). However, that clue in the Times
leads me to believe that this 1880 census page for Cass County
may contain the household of our John Brown. For those of you able to access
Ancestry.com, take note of the entry alongside youngest son William: “Don’t hear or talk well.”
If this, indeed, is the family of our John Brown, we at
least can now be certain we have the correct John Brown. Son of brick mason
William Brown and his wife Ellen, John was the middle son, flanked by older
brother James and younger William. In addition to the three boys, the Browns
also had an older daughter, Eloise.
In this family constellation, John was entered as a nine
year old—putting his birth in Indiana
at about 1871. At this point, there is no way to know whether the family had
suffered any dysfunctionality, any traumatic loss, or any other cause
triggering John’s later agony. Perhaps further examination of historic
newspaper collections may reveal other clues.
For now, however, I’ll defer to any direct family
descendants to take up that search. You see, John Brown’s drama only serves to
launch me into the story of how his young bride, Emma, eventually became part
of our Kelly family.
I suspect you're right that the family had seen it all with ol' John. Suicide is always hard to understand. When I was in high school, the 11-yr old brother of one of my friends committed suicide. Now there's a case of clinical depression, not just sadness, and certainly not drugs or alcohol abuse.
ReplyDeleteMy goodness the newspaper reporters didn't spare the families feelings at all with those reports. :(
ReplyDeleteSome families behave in ways I can't fathom - or rather in ways I wouldn't admit to understanding, but do, in a little way.
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